Wednesday, February 17, 2010

today Marilyn passed me a letter and an empty angpow, given by Princess's school. The letter is from the Society for the Physically Disabled on their fund raising project.

After I've opened all Princess's angpow, I asked her if she wants to give some money to the poorer people. Immediately she nod her head. I showed her all her angpow money and ask how much she wants to give, $2, $5 or $10. Without hesitation, she said $10.

My generous baby...



she wrote her own name on the angpow

10:13 PM

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Michelle suggested going to Sengkang for the Year 2010 countdown...

Its organised by RC, hence, mainly are aunties n uncles but there's also families with kids.

Nevertheless, we had our fun counting down, popping the poppers & spending the last few mins of 2009 & ushering 2010 together!!!




9:32 PM


Princess is attending Nursery at PAP this year!!

Went to school with Princess on her 1st day of school, 4 Jan 2010...

While waiting for the door to be opened, a little boy came to us, and says HELLO to Princess. But she, playing hard-to-get, did not react, just hide behind Marilyn's back..

Its an orientation day, hence no lesson. Just a short gathering for teachers, kids & parents. She joined herself that day, cos there's toys for them to play. And, we were the 2nd last family to leave.


9:01 PM

Friday, July 10, 2009

King's Birthday dinner @ AMK Hub New York New York 090709


12:19 AM

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

ExplorerKids on 050709


9:01 PM

Saturday, July 04, 2009

Princess 3rd birthday @ Sentosa 03072009


3:05 PM

Friday, June 12, 2009

Zoo 7 June 2009

mummy's off day. so decided to bring her n Princess to ZOO. Mummy rather excited, she says its been more den 20 over yrs since she came to ZOO...



8:26 PM

Thursday, March 26, 2009

shock!!

princess just came home.

she pulled down her pants & showed me e 2 red marks on her tiny leg. my dear sil beat her using a wooden stick & left behind these 2 fierce marks. my maid told me its because princess kept banging on the toilet door. just like that, she got these marks. my heart broke...

it must be very painful... the marks reminds me of the rattan marks i get from the beating i received when i was young. because of what happened to me, i will not allow any rattan stick enter my house. EVER!

i wasnt told of the beating, no explaination given, nothing. i wonder what other things happened & i wasnt aware (other than she went on a short trip to sawadika-land & HE brought her downstairs w/o my knowing & my approval, despite she gave me her words that it will not happened again)....

i cant scold her, i cant reprimand her, i cant ask her.... i can only vent here...

9:04 PM

Monday, March 23, 2009

my sick baby..

princess is finally down wif cough & fever after several minor flu (minor = today running rose, night take medi, next day recover). she's been having slight cough since last morning.

however, things worsen after e sat buffet dinnner wif SIL. as usual, princess pester for 'one-sip' only soft drink. even with my strong protest, king gave in to her. knowing her, her 'one-sip' only will ever end. so, whole night she had several 'one-sip'. next we had ice-cream for dessert, of course, she asked for 'one-bite' only. straight away, i said cannot. but everyone gave me the 'yr-mummy-say-cannot-leh' kind of look so i gave in n say ok to 'one-bite' only. but still it ended up with 3 bites.

true enuff, reached home, princess starts coughing wif phlegm. jia lat lor, there goes my night sleep.

apparently, princess has been eating alot of heaty food like peanuts at her ah gong hse, never control & now cough. but if its becoz of me, i sure kena from king. how fair is life....

anyway, total damage today $54/- for 4 btls of coloured 'water' x 2 sets

reached home, i told king tt if she did not get well tmr morning, she not gg over. guess wat? he gave me a you-siao-ar look. so wats wrong wif me wanting to stay home n look after my sick child? oh! maybe he's not happy cos e maid is not gg over to help tt side?? haaa maybe i m really siao...

11:18 PM

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

just gotten home, yet to shower, yet to have my dinner all becos i must pen down what happened less than 1/2hr ago.

on my way home, i dropped by punggol plaza to change a hair brush which i bought 2 days ago but is spoil (the 'teeth' part came off, cannot fix back to its base).

Reader, note i bought the brush from
THE ONLY HAIR ACCESSORIES SHOP AT LEVEL 1.

i went up to the auntie at cashier counter.


(note the following conversation is in mandarin)


ME:
i bought this 2 days ago but is spoil, i want to change


AUNTIE:
huh comb ar cannot change one


ME:
but i bought from here n its new n totally cannot use y cannot change?


AUNTIE:
we pack (into plastic) all the comb ourselves & if is spoil we will know.
if we pack & sell, tt means its not spoil. when u buy?


note: all this while, she is NOT looking at me, she just keep doing her things


ME:
2 days ago. spoil y cannot change
(note: me getting angry but haven raise my voice)


AUNTIE:
2 days ar, so long liao
(hello!!! monday night buy, wed change VERY LONG LEH??)
comb few cents only we dun change & we dunno how u use


ME:
xiao jie!
(damn, i shld hv called her AUNTIE instead)
this is not s few cents leh, its $1.60 hor


AUNTIE:
den u buy from who, u wait for the salesgirl come & u ask her


ME:
how many ppl work here


AUNTIE:
4


ME:
do u expect me to wait for all 4 to come to work??


halfway a customer wants to make payment,
i left her & went to the comb section &
took from e rack exactly the same one
as i bought n bring to counter,
still trying to convince her tt i bought it here.


ME:
auntie this is the same as the one i bought (but spoil) so confirm
I BOUGHT FROM HERE!!


AUNTIE:
~still singing 'comb cannot change blar blar blar
& at e same time open the one i got from e rack.
she tried the 'teeth' part to see it come out, did not.
den she fixed my faulty one n try rubbing a few time on her palm.
e 'teeth' no drop & she gave me the WHERE-GOT-SPOIL look~


ME:
if you can comb yr hair & it did not drop,
i wont change


AUNTIE:
~still rubbing the brush & IT DROP HAAAA!!~


ME:
~gave her the I-TOLD-YOU-SO look~


AUNTIE:
~took the new one, rub on her palm
& try to pry the 'teeth' to test. din drop~


ME:
if you use this comb yr hair & it will drop,
i will not change.


AUNTIE:
~try the new brush again, still ok, no drop.
w/o saying anything, she SLAP the brush on the counter~


note: all this while she is still NOT looking at me


ME:
does this mean u let me change?


AUNTIE:
aiya take lah take lah


ME:
u sure now u let me change?
~took the brush keep into my bag~
where got ppl buy thing, spoil cannot change one??
~angry, walk away~



my blood is still boiling even as i m typing.


very unresonable leh!!!


7:55 PM


something i must jot down

on 7 march 09, princess took off her diaper & declare tt she's not going to wear diaper to bed!! note hor, is she request herself, not me ar..

as precaution, i laid extra mattress protector at her side of the bed. taught her what to do if she needs to she-she. by e time she's ready to sleep, we'v practised several times, she's to wake me up n say 'mummy i wan sheshe'

The whole night, NO ACCIDENT!!!

happy!!

Been a couple of weeks now, NO ACCIDENT AT NIGHT!!my princess has stepped into another milestone!! & e queen will be able to save a couple of dollars on diaper.
I m so proud of my princess!!

2:23 PM

Sunday, December 28, 2008

SENTOSA TRIP

28-12-2008





2:17 AM

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Attended Jesslyn's wedding dinner on 12 Dec 08 @ Orchid Country Club..


To Jess: All e best & happiness always!




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After dinner, went around e Club to take pics..... lots of xmas deco leh....





2:17 PM

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

MY BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION


Went Fish & Co @ Changi Airpot for dinner. Rye secretly went to swenson to buy cake for me. But the cheapest he can find is the log cake (x'mas season cmg so everywhere is selling log cake). So, 1st time in my life story, i had a log cake as birthday cake heeeheeee..

After dinner, went home to cut cake. Princess was more excited den me...




1:56 PM

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

C. S. CHAN & CO - COMPANY TRIP TO BKK 2008


12:31 PM

Wednesday, June 04, 2008

Princess 2 year old birthday celebration....




7:19 PM

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

recevied a shocking news yesterday...

one of our shop manager has brain tumour... and she is younger than me... Sad...

visited her @ SGH last night wif colleague. she tears a lil' wen she sees us. she's undergoing the op today morning. Guess she is in the operating theatre while i blog now.

Sze Jia, be brave, everything will be alright.

Angels, Gods, Buddha, pls bless her!!

8:56 AM


goodness me!! its been almost half a yr since i blog....

ok, quick update abt me:
me now at new office, bz bz bz bz...
lil' princess kept me bz bz bz bz....
maid went home leave for 2 weeks, cmg back 10 june...
i need rebonding...
i want to cut lil' princess's fringe but she cried at the salon, in the end maid cut hair (cos already paid, no choice)...

Princess is coming to 2 yrs old... Time pass super fast man...

She can now speak short sentance :
i want to go swimming,
i want mum mum,
i want biscuit etc...
We can have short conversation wif her & most of e time she can understand... Now i have a wonderful helper to help pass me the tv remote controller... Amazing...

8:46 AM

Monday, December 31, 2007

long time since I last post updates.

I have changed my job. Now working with japanese bosses. Feedback I heard from ppl around me is that jap bosses are very demanding & hardworking & they expect their worker to be the same.

Been in the new co for abt 2 weeks now, so far still ok, still surviving. In the co, there's only my 2 jap bosses (husband & wife) + a colleague + ME. Small office but BIG business. We operate the Takopachi & Tori-Q outlets, total 11 outlets. One more new outlet cmg up @ Jurong. We are the HQ of all these outlets.

2008 Resolution No. 1 : to be able to stay in this co for looooong, rather tired of changing jobs now.


Had bbq session @ changi beach on x'mas eve with few sec school friend. Plenty of fun. One of my friend brought her daughter along. She is only 16 days younger den Princess but the development gap is so huge. She is able to make the sound of cat, dog, elephants, mummy (snoring sound) & she can sing ABC!! Amazing! My friend said her ger learnt all these from watching Barney & Hi-5. So, who says seeing too much TV is no good??!!

2008 Resolution No. 2 : to be more hardworking in teaching Princess.


Had bbq session (yes, again) @ Trina/Rudy's house on 29 Dec with all the ex-colleagues. Ironically, I am the ex-colleague of Trina & Rudy. Had many catching up too. Saw so many of them losing weight but me, kept putting on weight. Don't know why I am not a big eater but weight doesn't go down. So sad.

2008 Resolution No 3 : to lose weight.

~ The End ~

4:34 PM

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

I have been@ DXO for coming to 3 weeks... I m here to relief Liyun when she goes on maternity leave for 12 weeks.

Finally, Baby Cheryl arrived on 10-11-07, 11.30pm. Weighing at 3.06kg.


Looks like Daddy John...


Welcome Cheryl!!


Welcome to parenthood & endless milk feeding & diaper changing, John & Liyun!!


11:20 AM

Monday, November 12, 2007

Recently attended my cousin's wedding @ Orchid Country Club. It is buffet style dinner. My 1st time attending buffet-style wedding dinner. The pictures are well taken. They even have a mini cartoon of how they met till married. Nicely done. Groom even gave the bride a surpise by singing a self-wrote song (Note, he's not really a good singer, but at least he is brave enough to sing in front of so many ppl!). So romantic!! Shall upload the pics once i received.

My ex-colleague of mine just forwarded me his online wedding album. Very nicey!!
http://www.mywedding.com/eddyjacey/
They having their customary wedding dinner @ Malaysia (coz both r malaysians & theirfamilies & friendz r all there). Must ask them give me a treat when they r back hoohooohooooooo!!

11:11 AM

Friday, October 19, 2007

this morning, i came to office in high sprit cos its fri (well, who doesn't). logged into my usual parenting forum & came across this blog: http://ashleyisourangel.blogspot.com

suddenly, my world seems to turn dark. my tears tap was turn on auto, can't turned off.

as i was reading the entries, i felt painful, physically & mentally. puting myself in their shoes, i don't think i can brace myself to let go & live life.

life is so ironic.

i wish to thanks the angel, the buddha, the lord for blessing me with a healthy growing child (note, i m not a religious person).

10:06 AM

Thursday, October 04, 2007



9:10 AM

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

For the past 20+ yrs, 八月十五has been just an ordinary day. But for this year, I wanted it to be special as we have a new family member & I wanted her to celebrate all possible festival. Michelle sugguested going to the Chinese Garden. So we went on last Friday. Fortunately, the garden is not very packed.

9:08 AM

Friday, September 14, 2007

Hubby not working on sunday thus I planned for a Zoo outing. Had planned to leave house at 3pm but Princess fell asleep so we wait till she wakes up. At 3.30pm, no sign of her waking up, we woke her up. So bad of us hor :P..... but the sky is getting dark worh....

We reached the Zoo around 4pm. We bought the 'Admission only' tix $16.50 x 3 (hub, me & maid) = $49.50. They also have 'Admission + unlimited ride on tram' $20something & 'Zoo + Night Safari' $30. Ya we opt for the cheapest one.

Stepping in, the 1st animal we saw is the monkeys, hanging on the trees above us. So scared the monkey will decide to pee on us..

The 1st enclosure we came to is 'XXX's'. Wondering what is XXX right! XXX = the name of the animal which I dunno... However, they sure are cute fellows. Initially, all were swimming & running around. Hubby call out to them & one by one they came & lie down infront of us!!


Even pose for us!!


Princess wif the status, not wanting to let go.

Nice waterfall...

We also saw the White Tiger. Very pretty.
Tiger is behind!!
Monkey King
See closely, you see something
Taking a break...

Monkey
'Up'
'Close'
'Personal'
'Zebra 'crossing'!

We also brought Princess to the Children Playland. Had wanted to let her touch the animal but was late, is close. So can only play swing & water. Din play water for long cos Princess is cold & shivering.

Princess luvs swing!

9:21 AM

Friday, August 31, 2007

gosh, looking back, its been veri long (how long?) since I last blog...

Princess is now 14 mths old. Getting more active (& more naughty) & walks like expert.

These days she's very prone to throw temper. Whenever we don't give her things she want, she'll start crying. Am i going to have a 'terrible two' at home (but she's only 14 mth!!)?

She is also rejecting her playpen (which also serves as her bed). She's been sleeping on my bed with me for the past few days. Whenever we carry her back to her bed (after she's asleep), she wakes up & cry, not wanting to go to her bed.

She recognises 'fan', 'light', 'television', 'ger ger' (tat's herself), 'aircon', 'bear' (soft toy & bear print on shirt), 'ball' (although she pronounce as 'bear' too).

When she's tired, she will take her hankie, climb up the bed (yes, she can climb up & down my bed) & lie down to rest.

She can drink from straw, like a pro's pro.

If we are going out, she will bring us her shoes for us to put on for her & keep her shoes when we reach home.

9:33 AM

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Finally, the long awaited day is here.

My Princess can walk by her own!!! (although not really considered a pro yet).

Whenever we put on her shoes for her, she knows she can get on her feet to roam around. Sometimes she even try to run a step or two. So cute...

Few days ago, Rye let her try walking down a slope. She was like can't catch up with her own step, she was like running down the slope. When she reached the bottom, she kept looking back at the slope as if wondering what was that, why the road so funny??!!

These days Rye been teaching her how to climb up & down our bed. She's really the once-start-cannot-stop kind. Once she got the hang of it, she won't stop climbing!!

We wanted to teach her how to drink from straw, which we are still trying.....

9:48 AM


Charlie borrowed $50 from Andy and $50 from Ben.

Charlie then used the $100 to buy something worth $97 and received $3 change.

He then return $1 to Andy and $1 to Ben and kept $1 to himself.

He now owes Andy $49 and Ben $49 but with Andy's $49 and Ben's $49 and his own $1,the total is only $99.

Where did the other $1 go to?

9:17 AM

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Yup, my dear darling precious Princess had a total of 3 birthday cake this yr.

The 3rd cake is complementary from Michelle....


Michelle bought this from Australia...


Sitting comfortably on the chick/duck (can any1 tell me piyo is chick or duck?)




So happy, can eat cake again!!


Blow the candle...


Yipeee, candles blown, can cut cake le


Quick cut the cake so that I can eat.


The King, the Queen & the Princess


Thank you for the present & cake!!

10:13 AM

Friday, July 06, 2007

Had a long weekend last week. Took leave from Monday to Wednesday. What a luxury!!

I booked a room in Costa Sand Resort (the cheapest of course) to celebrate Princess's 1 yr old birthday. We did not make this into an elaborate event as she already had a grand 1-month celebration 11 months ago. This time, I just want the 3 of us to enjoy the moment (also an excuse for me to R&R).

DAY 1 (MONDAY 2/7/07)
However, in e morning, Princess was having slight fever & coughing. This time the cough sounds very different from last time. Took her to the doc. As we made no appointment, we waited for almost 2hrs before its our turn. Doc said this time her cough is slightly more serious as its coming from her chest. It could lead to bronchitis. Thus we must take good care & observer. By then, her fever has subsides. Back home, we gave her medic. Seeing she's feeling ok (sick but still can move around, climb here & there, being talkative), we proceed with our hol.

We drove in, car full of stuffs (food, drinks, bb stuff, bbq stuff, a luggage etc). The admission is $2/pax + $2/car entry. So total we paid $6, not too bad. On the way to the resort, we saw a bird nest lying on the road, very dangerous IF there is bridling inside. Being a pet lover (bird, dog, fish... you name it), Rye went down to shift the nest to the grass patch nearby. He said its empty & one of the passerby praised him for his good deed.

After we reached our room, we took a short rest before we went out to explore.

We took the resort's shuttle bus to the underwater world. Of course, cannot miss this place. Although every time we came, its always the same old things but I just won't get sick of it :P

the new corner @ underwater world: Interactive Ray Pool



We went back after that to start the bbq. We walked back as the timing for the shuttle bus is over (its only till 4pm). Fortunately, its only a short distance. On the way, Rye caught a spider saying is Princess's present...

Spider on her hand


Rye took charge of the bbq (of course). Princess got cranky after awhile. No choice got to bring her back to e room, leaving poor daddy alone bbq-ing. Back to the room, Princess fell asleep within 3 mins. She only napped awhile. Went out to look for daddy again. I suggested eating in e room as its cooler. Luxury again, eating oily food in the room with aircon on to full blast.

After dinner, we went to a swim.

Bedtime.


DAY 2 (TUESDAY 3/7/07)
We went for swim again around 1+.

While waiting for her lunch, she explore the room...

After lunch, Princess is all energetic, while daddy is tired...

Today's planned itinerary is to the Butterfly & insect park and herb & spice garden. The garden was kinda disappointment as its only just a small place, not much to see. Lucky, its free admission.
spotted this weird looking caterpillar in the butterfly garden
We took the Sentosa express to Vivocity to buy cake for Princess. Also had our lunch-cum-dinner there as its almost 4+ when we reached. Bought a Berry-Sundae cake from Bread Talk.


Trina & Rudy came to visit & pass Princess her present & CAKE again... Hahaaa Princess had 2 bd cake this yr...



DAY 3 (WEDNESDAY 4/7/07)
Checked out at 10am+.

Home Sweet Home + tonnes of things to pack & wash...

1:02 PM